{"id":12060,"date":"2021-04-17T16:04:02","date_gmt":"2021-04-17T23:04:02","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/rocknponderosa.com\/?p=12060"},"modified":"2021-04-17T16:04:02","modified_gmt":"2021-04-17T23:04:02","slug":"certificate-of-marriage","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/rocknponderosa.com\/?p=12060","title":{"rendered":"Certificate of Marriage"},"content":{"rendered":"

I’ve not a lot to write about this week, but here are a couple of items.<\/p>\n

I was told I need to have a Certificate of Marriage to accomplish changes with the Social Security System. I don’t think we ever had an official certificate. There is a page so titled in the white leather-bound Memories of Our Wedding book, shown here:\"\"
\nThe ceremony was in a Baptist Church with both Catholic and Baptist officials. The writing is all the same (and very nice). My mother, the one witness, signed her own name. It seems odd, but it is what it is. I’ve no idea who did the rest of it.
\nApparently, the SS folks now want an official document. This may be a Panic20\/21 thing. Prior face-to-face visits \u2013 I’ve been told \u2013 did not require one. Anyway, Nancy’s longest-time friend, Dot S., went to the DeKalb County courthouse and came away with the required official paper; now in the mail. She knew where, what, and who \u2013 I hadn’t a clue. Thanks, Dot.<\/p>\n

NEXT ITEM – – – – – – – –
\nEarly this coming week I will deliver a letter to 3 of our local health people \u2013 all with the Hospital. The 3rd person on the list has been our eye-care specialist for about 20 years. He is also President of the Board of Commissioners of the hospital. {& I haven’t sent him an e-mail about Nancy, yet!}
\n– – – – – here is the letter – – – – –
\nJulie Petersen, CEO
\nDr. Kevin Martin, CMO
\nDr. Bob Davis, B of C<\/p>\n

I currently have two issues with the health\/medical system.<\/p>\n

The first has to do with visit-triggered auto-surveys such as the one attached to this letter. [Only JP gets this.]
\nNote the visit date of discharge: 3\/12\/21
\nThis is a 2nd copy of the survey; the original was returned.
\nI suspect there will be another survey because Nancy was discharged a second time from KVH on March 27th. She was transported to Memorial in Yakima. There she died.<\/p>\n

A copy of her obituary is attached.<\/p>\n

The other issue: Both Nancy and I have long had the “Donor \u2013 red heart” symbol on our driver’s license. When Nancy died early Tuesday morning (about 6:30) the fact of her death was entered into the donation registration list administered by LifeCenter Northwest.
\nWithin hours, that prompted a phone call to me, at home.
\nI was questioned \u2013 probing disquisition \u2013 for about an hour about my wife’s medical history, social activities, sexual habits, and more than I can now remember. It is an understatement to say this was disturbing. I suggest you obtain a copy of the questions and ask yourself if you would like to be answering these within a few hours of a death of a spouse or family member.<\/p>\n

There has to be a better way. I have suggestions, but you don’t need me to figure this out.<\/p>\n

When I die there is no one to respond to the questions that I answered regarding Nancy. Therefore, I removed my name from the organ donor list.<\/p>\n

Respectfully,
\nJohn<\/em>
\n– – – – – – – – END OF LETTER – – – – – –<\/p>\n

Lastly, for today . . .
\nBy the end of May I hope to have many of the official actions, that follow a death, taken care of. I’m advised there will be more for a year or so. I am alternating among those things, normal house and yard duties, and getting rid of enough “stuff” that Nancy’s clothes, related items, and possessions can be examined for dispersal (term?).
\nI will invited a few friends to help with this. Perhaps on the last weekend of May. Six weeks ought to give me time to clear the rubble. <\/p>\n

That’s it, from the Naneum Fan
\nJohn <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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